


Red Flags in Relationships: Warning Signs to Watch Out For
Relationships should uplift you, not drain your sanity. They should be a source of inspiration, support, and mutual growth. In a healthy relationship, both individuals strive to bring out the best in each other, fostering an environment of trust, respect, and open communication. When a partnership becomes a constant source of stress or emotional exhaustion, it’s essential to reflect on whether it aligns with your well-being and personal values. red flags, while a funny topic, can also give you a heads up about what's to come. a red flag by itself may be a one-off, but coupled with trouble in paradise, or some other signs, you need to pay attention. Here are some major red flags to beware of:
1. Their ex still has a key to their apartment - and possibly their heart. just plan for it.
2. They only post gym selfies - vanity alarm bells ringing. unless you do this too, in which case, ahem, nevermind.
3. They leave you on "read" for hours... every time - ghost mode activated permanently. forget all that.
4. Their phone background is still an ex - closure not included. um...
5. They "forget" to mention they have kids... or a wife - surprise! eeeek.
6. They constantly talk about their ex's flaws... in detail - projection alert. you'll soon learn that likely they're the one with the flaws.
7. Their friends all warn you away from them - wisdom from strangers. that level of betrayal comes from somewhere serious! unless it's a dude friend, in which case, he wants to have sex with you. ugh.
8. They say "I'm not like other guys/girls"... immediately after meeting - liar alarm blaring.
10. They have an ex's name tattooed - run, unless they offer to add your name in a smaller font.
12. They ask about your salary on date one - only if you want a partner who loves your money more than you. repeat of number two. if this too is you, then well, I hear wedding bells!
13. They still live with an ex - deal breaker, unless they claim it's just a "friendly roommate situation"... yeah right.
14. Their favorite hobby is "following you on social media" - EXTREMELY creepy, block button activated.
how many of these red flags have you encountered? do any of them ring true? Or on the other hand, do you completely disagree with any? Did your boyfriend start out with a psycho alert amount of red flags but turn into the most wonderful husband a girl could ask for? Tell us in the comments!
In the meantime, if you're dating, when you see a red flag, you know what to do. Trust your instincts and remember that your emotional well-being is a priority. Recognizing red flags early can save you from unnecessary heartache and guide you toward healthier relationships. Equally important, take the time to reflect on what you're truly seeking in a partner. Identifying your core values, boundaries, and long-term goals will help you attract someone who aligns with your vision for the future. A strong foundation starts with clarity and self-awareness, so invest in understanding yourself before building a connection with someone else.
thanks for stopping by and reading my blog post today, y'all. until next time...
mama gnome, a.k.a. eliza
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until next time...
mama gnome, a.k.a. Eliza
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